Sometimes you just need to realize that you haven’t dug into That Thing™️ because you don’t really want to. There are other areas where you want to spend your time1 and/or effort more, and that’s ok2.
1You can “spend your time” in 1 of 2 ways: 1) by using your time in “real time” or 2) by using your money, which is basically a battery for time (storing previously spent time in a voucher that can be rapidly exchanged for something).
2It may help to determine where That Thing™️ falls in this hierarchy before you commit to the “that’s ok” path.
I started dividing my to-do list into 1) things I have to do, 2) things I want to do, and 3) things other people want me to do. Life changing! I often don’t get to 3 and I finally realized omg, is this what it means to have boundaries?! 🤯🤯🤯— Jenée (@jdesmondharris) June 26, 2021